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expectations are rules that may not apply

identity memoir perseverance relationships

The Truth About Expectations I Wish I had Known Sooner

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  • August 5, 2019

Life is full of irony. Shortly after I published my last post “Since Divorce My Relationship Expectations Have Changed“ I was given some interesting perspective on “expectations” from a coach I was working with that punched me right in the face. And I use punched deliberately. This insight that was provided to me made me…

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break ups happily ever after identity memoir relationships

Since Divorce My Relationship Expectations Have Changed

  • Posted by ayb
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  • July 1, 2019

Since the divorce, my relationship expectations have changed. Before marriage, it felt like being on the hunt. (I’m guessing this metaphor works as I’ve never actually hunted for anything. Maybe 4 -leaf clovers, but given my luck, you can guess how many of those I’ve ever found. Yeah, you got it. 0.) I felt like…

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