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Life Inside the Trees: When Laying Roots Means Returning to Your Self

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  • February 4, 2019

When I got ready to move back to Vermont after finishing grad school, I knew the one thing I would miss would be the metro park down the street from my apartment. It had become an old and trusted friend, another home, a place to center myself and be. Something about my solitude and comfort…

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Shame keeps your spirit in darkness

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My Prose Poem Called “Shame, You’re No Longer Welcome Here”

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  • October 18, 2018

Shame is one of those words that sounds exactly like what it evokes. Shit.      Hopelessness.           Assholes.                Myths.                     Embarrassment. Shame is why I didn’t admit to any caring adult in my life…

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My Childhood Spirit was Awakened with Dance, Draw, Write

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  • September 12, 2018

If someone had said to me that attending a facilitated session called Dance, Draw, Write would overwhelm me with emotion, or that I would rediscover a part of my childhood spirit, I would be extremely skeptical. There I was Sunday morning, the last day of women’s weekend, saddened by the knowledge that in a few…

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Flashback: Triggered Memories and Usually Not Good Ones

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  • August 8, 2018

Note: This post stemmed from a prompt flashback to misery.   I’m writing a book and it’s a shitty long look backwards. I mean the writing isn’t shitty, but the looking back certainly is. Memoir seems to be a deliberately-written exploration of a series of miserable flashbacks. Or flashbacks on misery. Flashbacks with misery? Flashback…

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Damsel in a storybook

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The Damsel Plus Other Roles and Ideas in the ‘Happily Ever After’ Narrative

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  • August 3, 2018

I’ve read this in a book. You’ll laugh. It’s the story of a damsel. You’ll know exactly this story as soon as I start simply by the way this story begins. Once upon a time … … in a land [insert some adjective that indicates far, followed by one that suggests foreign and a third…

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Standing after storm

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Reporting My Love Life: Stormy Weather Trajectories of the Last 30 Years

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  • July 27, 2018

NOTE: The following post was based off this writing prompt: write a weather report. This is the first post about misguided romance and my unpredictable, somewhat tragic, and darkly humorous love life. There will be more. For now, you can view the description of my memoir (in-progress) to get a sense of what this is…

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